(I've read all three books, so beware, there are some serious SPOILERS

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I don't really like Dimitri. That's not a good start, huh?

He is fantastic as a
guy, stable, brave, and madly in love with Rose, but.. There's no dynamics in him, he is boring as a character. Adrian, on the other hand, is much more complicated and layered. Almost everyone perceives him as a womanizer, an addict, and... someone irresponsible, generally. However, it turns out that he is one of the most sensitive ones. Adrian (and Dimitri, but that's a different story) is the only person who knows Rose, who can truly see through her (even her best friend didn't know what was going on). In spite of his feelings towards her, he doesn't really try to seduce Rose, he knows she is lost for him (when Dimitri is around). I think that is the reason why I adore him. The understanding, which distinguishes him from the rest of the characters.
Ok, that was stating the obvious.
I hope that Rose will end up with Adrian. Dimitri is a good match for her, one who understands her, who helps her to 'embrace' her good side. They complement each other, Dimitri who is patient and careful and Rose, who acts upon an impulse. However, they being together would be fairy tale-ish or one would say - Twilight-ish. Simply unrealistic. In the foundations of Rose and Dimitri lays their commitment to the Moroi. The purpose of their lives (and imho the thing that Dimitri values the most, the fact that he has a goal). Without it, they would be different people. If they ended up together, they would have to give up everything they loved and lived for. I understand that love changes people, but such things don't happen in real life. Yep, in fairy tales. If Dimitri was resurrected as a Moroi.. That would be worse than vampire Bella with a kid. Bella with her husband to guard, a guy with whom she is able to reproduce, a couple of fighters etc. Blah.
Besides, Dimitri is Rose's god. They are not equal in this relationship. Despite the fact that Rose went through a lot, Dimitri still perceives her outbursts as childish. Rose is only 18 and with Dimitri she has to grow up quickly. I know that the world in which she lives would eventually force her to do that, but she needs a support in it. Someone able to lead her to it. Someone, who doesn't (even unconsciously) want her to dive in deep waters.
(It's like with Buffy and Angel. As we know, they did not end up together - Buffy realized she was still a 'cookie')
Adrian, on the other, is just perfect for her. He is sensitive, understanding, balancing on the edge of the politics. As queen's nephew, he is in the center of all events. However, as a spirit user, he is trying to avoid being involved. He is able to make her feel safe (with the ability to grow up, 'cause he is apolitical) without taking away the real world (after all she went through, she still needs a link to it). Don't you all get the feeling that the whole life Rose had no safe spot to stay and feel comfortable? With Dimitri, she would be fighting, fighting, and fighting. Even their house would be a remainder of everything which is happening outside. With Adrian, she could fight (as his guardian) and have home. Home she didn't have, because of her mother's choice. Home she wants to have (her conversations with Janine clearly show that I'm right).
Adrian/Rose would not be fairy tale-ish. She would get all she needs.. expect of her first love. However, that's what first love is - something passionate, and... ephemeral.
Also, I can't really see them dating... right now. It could be something happening after few years. Rose needs someone able to comfort her, like a friend.
I hope that, eventually, they will be together. I see no point in creating the oath from Shadow Kiss just to ignore it in the future books. Of course, there might be something like Dimitri-living-alone-just-to-avoid-being-tempted-by-the-human-blood and Rose-trying-to-move-on-but-failing, but it would not make sense in the bigger picture (Rose left school just to say hi to Dimitri?!). But, well, there are only two months left

I guess I have to be patient.
Sorry for my English ;P It is not my first language. I'll write a proper introduction post today or tomorrow. I've just finished Shadow Kiss and I kinda had to wriite it
